Monday, Sep 03, 2007
Episode #126-"Interracial Dating Site For Sistas"
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i dont think this is loaded up correctly... its only 22 minutes. or maybe my download was interrupted? lol
Mine was interrupted too. also, here's a site i found that's similar to the site you mentioned, just from the men's pespective:
http://blackwomenattitude.blogspot.com/
I don't really give a flying fuck if the sistas want to date "the wonder breads." My thing is this, do what you gotta do to get ahead in the dating sense, but at least have some class with your game. Don't say to yourself, "I want to date white men cause they're tread me better than the black men." Not only will you be lying to yourself, but also, you're be setting yourself up for destruction thinking a white man will be different than a black man. And make sure that your game is tight, and you're not dating white men out of ignorance cause I hate when the "sistas" say to themseleves "black men are dogs, and they're no good,so let's go after some white men cause white men will treat you better. That's bullshit in every step of this dabate. If you black sistas think for a second that white men will not creep up on another women and get his macking on, you just a dumb ass person who has no sense as well as no game at all. And as far as dating only a certain race and abandoning your own race, your saying to yourself, "I'm a racist bastard and my reason for dating white men is to get back at the brothas for doing me wrong and treating me bad and shit." To the sistas all over the world, if you want to have game and get a man that will bring certain to the table, treat you right, and show respect to you at all times, you have to be a lady first and foremost, and stop having ghetto behavior thinking that one day "The male version of cinderalla will come and recuse you from the project. Just be yourself, have class at all times, make sure your man is taking care of, and when he see these things going on, he will do anything for you.
Man Fuck Black Bitches that put down us Black brothers down. I'm a black man My MOM and Dad are from Africa but I was bron here. I went to an all white school I have a good life I'm not a thug I talk good English I dress well but I still get no play from sisters even from the ones that live a white girl life. Also hood bitches laugh at me so for the ladies that think all black men are Dogs and treat black women bad FUCK YOU.
"Man Fuck Black Bitches that put down us Black brothers down. I'm a black man My MOM and Dad are from Africa but I was bron here. I went to an all white school I have a good life I'm not a thug I talk good English I dress well but I still get no play from sisters even from the ones that live a white girl life. Also hood bitches laugh at me so for the ladies that think all black men are Dogs and treat black women bad FUCK YOU."
There are so many reasons I wouldn't date you, simply from this paragraph. "You talk good English"? You type like a retard! Fuck you too!
message to the ladies.
you will never get something for nothing!
if you do, It wont last long!
Whats up Tariq, This ur boy Chris T. This aint got nothing to do with the show today, but im listening to you from all the way in Toronto, Canada, and im loving ur shit mang, Ive learned so much off just the podcast alone. And i plan to get ur book real soon. I just want to kno what u think about the T-dot have u ever been there yet? and i want to kno what u think about the dyme situation up here. by the way im promoting ur stuff real hard out here, theres alot of simps, that need to be saved. too much brownnosing. holla EZ.
Yo Black lady get a life. I bet your not even cutie go to your white man. But don't forget don't get mad if you see us with a fine white girl. LOL!!!!!!!
Has anyone tried to download the older shows??? I've had problems downloading Tariq's shows off supload.com . zshare is cool, but supload is where I'm having problems.
Men why are you so hard on the ladies for dating outside of their race. There are many women who date outside of their race because they feel this person may be the one for them. You can not help who you fall in love with. I have dated both black men and white men. I never try to compare the two. White men are totally different than and Black men are totally different than White men. Don't get wrong I love the brothas it is not better than a black. However, we as women should explore other areas just like the brothas do. Remember game respects game. So, all this fuck the sistas mess because you are not getting play needs stop.
I agree with this response too. Why are you men hard on the sistas. When brothas date white women we have to accepted it why can't you do the same. An for the African brotha you should know better. You came from a country of beauty.
Everyone go to www.unitedplayersofamerica.com and lets chop it up. Especially the ladies!!
Yo to Nightwing, head over to unitedplayersofamerica.com into the "ask tariq" section. Brothers are upping the old podcasts till Tariq can get to 'em.
Far as the interracial dating thing goes, I don't really care who you date. Trying to force a black woman to date inside her race is still "saving" her. Let them do what the fuck they want to do, cuz we gon do what the fuck we want to do.
Got it! Thanks!!!
You got six billion people on this planet. If black women wanna jump ship, I say let em! But when whitey sends em back, don't be too quick to take em back!!!
co-sign Big Daddy
Big Daddy you sound big and nasty and who would want you but a big nasty, trashy white woman. Because I have yet to see a brother with a fine white woman yet. But, If i ever do I will give them their props but I still wanting..
Ladies why are you getting so upset over brothas dating white women. I am a black woman and I am not mad at them. I say if you want to date outside of you race do it. This is a free ass country do what the hell you want to do.
Man, them sistas that date white dudes are pretty cool, it's them sistas that ain't got that open mind and ain't got some sense about them so when they see a brotha with a latina or with a white girl, they lose they muthafuckin' mind!
It's them cornrowed out, women's studies hippie bitches that ain't bathed in a few days that are the ones that have a hard time...or it's them 160lb over their healthy weight booty that looks like two DOGS (not puppies) fighting under a blanket that have a hard time with brothas that date white girls or chicanas...
dem broads ain't got nothin to offer no nigga, and they ain't got shit going on in their life.
The bitches need a fukin' hobby, but they're too involved with staying up with the latest hood gossip to do anything else.
Man, if them broads are trippin' about a brotha who's dating a non-black girl, you oughta tell them women to get a gotdamn hobby!
I don't fuck with sistas no mo! Tha bitches wanna rob a nigga that already doesn't have a problem helpin' 'em out from time to time...it's like if a nigga wanna treat a sista like she SAYS she wants to be treated, tha nigga gets punked out by them bitches, so I leaves them hoes alone.
I gave up that "Nice Guy" shit and simpin' was neva my game. Fuck them hoes if they got a problem with it...the sistas that do date white dudes and are still single, most of the ones I've met are pretty nice dymes (kinda like those Brazilian dymes) and don't have a problem with brothas if they bring the real and not some super-macho or ultramasculine bullshit to the table.
It's all about the quality of the broad...them multi-generational poverty/project-livin' super-overweight broads ain't got the self-esteem so they blame shit on the white women. Fuck dem broads. Do your damn thing.
Dam. Did I saw I had a white woman? Actually, she's puerto rican/ecuadorian!
BEEEEEYOTCH!!!!
When it comes to interracial dating, I feel that it's a very beautiful thing even if you’re a black man that is dating a white woman or a black woman that is dating a white man. I have dated in my race and out of my race. Not because I was searching based on skin color. It's because I loved the way the person was internally. Regardless of what anyone says about who I date, whether it's because of their race or not, I don't care. I'm happy with them so others would just have to deal with it. Finally, I feel that it is unfair for your partner if the only reason you are dating them is to get back at your own race. Not only is that horrible, it’s also childish. It makes you look very stupid. The reason I say this is because I know one female friend that actually stuck out side of her race just to get back at black men. How pathetic. I am a black female that only dates someone based on personality.
Don't sound so surprised that some black women have a distaste for black men...after all Tariq, are you not a womanizer? How many times in this podcast did you refer to a black woman as a bitch?
Negro please. Every woman isn't willing to put up with your shit.
BIIIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATCH!!!!
One of the biggest problems I find with sistas who date "outside" is the excuse that somehow black men are responsible for them straying. I you meet a nice white man who loves you and cares for you or you simply prefer white men, SAY THAT. Don't blame black men for your issues. We are not all dogs, a lot of us are in or have been to college and are intelligent and have enough going for us to be viable life mates. I always hear the same bullsh*t excuse from women who date outside; "Black men ain't no good" blah, blah, blah. It is a sista's own vanity, arrogance and indifference toward black men in general as well as her inability to see her own flaws that send her packing. Its funny how some black women can have such a raucous nature towards brothas and when they get with white men, they become docile as doves. If you try being a little docile with brothas, you'd attract a man possessing the same type of qualities you seek from "the white man" only you wouldn't get called "n*gger" on the first falling out.
What the fuck...what's up with all the hating on the sistas for dating white dudes.
But then you wanna learn how to game a white female.
I'm a brutha and I date whoever the hell I want to date and I'm not gonna knock a sista for doing the same.
Shiiit
I have to put my S on my chest, and stand up for black women. Who else is a successful, educated, and hard working black woman is going to date? The majority of black men don't have their life together. Over 50% of inner cities don't even graduate high school... it makes you wonder how many even have a college degree? Visit a black college and count how many black men you see in classrooms compared to how many sisters you see. Sister are doing their thing! Come to a city with a large black middle-class, and you will find many sisters who are wifey material that can't find a man that matches her attributes. Who expects Ms. Corporate Law to marry Mr. Warehouse worker. Sisters do your thing, don't disrespect yourselves, and don't get played by the 'game'.
A brother that has his life together owns the black dating world. Use this power responsibly. Some decide to be players their entire lives and end up being a bull with a better suit. Where did our morality go?
KFlex is on point. Let the White Cats who want to deal with those sistas deal with them. It just leaves more white women and women of other races and cultures for the brothers to Gig ,Mack and spit game too.
Women of other races 9 times out of 10 usually don't have children, aren't disrepectful and feel they don't have anything to prove to a brother and are willing to break bread without a problem, without the attitude and without feeling they are on some entitlement shit.
Brothers need to step their game up, stop feeling they have to stay in the hood(read Hood-Rats)look at this as an opportunity to grow beyond the Hood and Globalize their Game.
I speak from experience, I'm not a Fly Cat, I'm not a baller and I don't make alot of bread. But, I pull women of other races who from jump break bread on a brother.
Just like Commssioner Stern is taking the NBA Global and brothers in the U.S. have to Retool their Game- So do brothers who want to GiG, Mack and Pimp have to ReTool their Shit for the Globalization of Game.
Brothers in the U.S. don't know , but other races and cultures damn near worship the way we walk, talk, dress, move and shake because they see how we lay our game down and handle black women without simping-until recently.
So brothers, opportunity has opened the door, are you going to stay at thershold just knocking or are you going to walk in using the Tools Brother Tariq has given us.
I ain't pimping, but I'm never simping, but I use the tools what I got from KFlex to get what I want.
Real Talk
KT-NYC
I personally never dated outside my race. Im an African American sister. But I do not know what the future holds to be honest. Love is Blind. But I do not like when sisters disrespect African American brothers, this is just wrong. My father was a good black man, and he would never let me disrespect a decent Black brother who has his shit together!
I'm a black female who dates both black and white men and I absolutely love it. I get the best of both worlds. You have to be a true and open minded individual to understand interracial dating, because in the end it's not about race it's about enjoying the company and experience the two of you share.
It's about BW expanding their option to improve their chances at love...
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